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Thankful and Stuffed…A Family Fest

Our family celebrates together

It’s Black Friday.  I’m stuffed and sluggish so this will be short.  Helen (adorable wife) and I spent the early morning prepping and cooking a turkey and setting the table for a family Thanksgiving meal at our home. Since other family members were bringing side dishes, this really did not require much of an effort.  Besides, when my mom is bringing her cornbread dressing and giblet gravy, I would do most anything to contribute.

The table is ready

I also spent the morning, like most people, thinking about the things I’m thankful for.

Grandmother, Helen, and two lovely granddaughters

I’m eternally blessed to have a wonderful family.  At 89, my mother is a vibrant lively person who dotes on the rest of us.  It is a genuine treasure to be in her company.  We lost my father many years ago, and my mother met and married a kind and generous man, and we are so fortunate to have Don as a member of our family. My brother, Jim, is a successful businessman as well as my best friend. He and his wife Patty have two lovely and very intelligent daughters to keep them hopping. Jim and his son Carey own Planet H20, a company that discovered Artesian water in Tennessee and they now bottle and market it throughout the country. (See ad at right). My sister who you met earlier this year couldn’t be with us as she was enjoying an RV trip with her daughters.

Brother, Jim

Our time together was primarily spent enjoying each other and catching up with the activities of the girls as well as spending a few precious minutes with our grandchildren on FaceTime. We watched a little football and discussed our disappointment with the lack of success for our Tennessee Volunteers.  Everyone agreed that a new coach will get us turned around.

Mom stirred the gravy while everyone else watched and waited in eager anticipation.  There might be disappointment with Tennessee football, but not with our meal. When the mincemeat pie was served our family fest had ended in a true feast. By the time coffee arrived, I noticed that a few belts went down a notch.

Mom stirs the gravy

There’s so much more to be thankful for, and it has been a great year so far.  I’m grateful for our health even though we may have a new knee in the family next year.  We’re blessed to have been able to travel through our beautiful country in 2017 and we look forward to more of that. We love our church and our church family and greatly enjoy our involvement there. I’m eternally grateful for Easin’ Along readers and, to those of you who have subscribed and sent comments to us, please accept my thanks for your contribution. You have added meaning, purpose, and much value to our weekly posts.  

As I said above, this would be short.  I’ll let a few pictures tell the rest of the story of our day. My wish is that everyone had as blessed a Thanksgiving as we did. It’s time to be Easin’ Along…

Patty, enjoying the day
Turkey with cornbread dressing
Cranberry sauce (my favorite)
Mincemeat pie
FaceTime with the grandchildren
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West Coast Turn Around…Turn Around and it’s Gone!

Hermosa Beach, CA

Life can be a whirlwind at times and this fall seems to be one of those times. It has all been self-imposed and it has all been a lot of fun, and fun is retirement activity of the best kind. We’ve been to weddings and wedding parties, church and friend gatherings, Halloween fun, and neighborhood events. Fall is a great time of the year!

Two weeks ago, Helen (adorable wife) and I took Betty (our camper) on a trip to Big South Fork National River and Recreation Area and joined a group from our church in a delightful weekend in the woods (see last week’s post).  We arrived home from that adventure on a Sunday afternoon then left the following Tuesday on a flight to Southern California to visit our son and his family for another week of fun in the warm California sun.

Even though the flights are long, and the airlines don’t care that people like me (6’ 4” tall) don’t fit in their ridiculously small seating, I endure it for the joy that awaits at the end of the runway. Our grandchildren are a sheer delight and that weather is always perfect. In addition, there was plenty of activity planned and we were looking forward to all of it. Here’s the rundown…

Arriving at school

Wednesday: Our first activity was walking our grandchildren the three blocks to their elementary school.  This may seem like a small thing, but Helen and I never miss the opportunity. Walking gives us a chance to have a casual chat with them and meet some of their friends.  The elementary school starts the day with a program of free play where the children are encouraged to walk the track for about twenty minutes and then have organized exercise before entering the classroom.  This is a great program and the children seem to love it.  There are always plenty of parents around, most holding coffee cups and engaged in conversation with other parents. This truly is a social event.

Veterans and scouts

Thursday: The school observed Veteran’s Day and all parents who have served in the Armed Forces were honored in a formal ceremony after the morning exercise.  As a Veteran and a grandfather, I was included in the ceremony and made a hasty run to the Exchange at Los Angeles Air Force Base the day before to purchase a “Retired US Army” cap which I wore proudly as my name was called by the school principal. My son, an Army Veteran, was also honored and we stood side by side in the group photo with other Vets.  The ceremony recognized members of scouting organizations and my grandson attended looking resplendent in his new Cub Scout uniform.  Following the ceremony, a student handed me a very sincere letter thanking me for my service (see letter at bottom).

Friday: School was out and my son had the day off for Veteran’s Day, so Helen and I let everyone sleep in and we drove down to the pier at Redondo Beach for some fresh air and an early lunch. I love Redondo Beach.  The view south toward Palos Verdes is beautiful and we sat and looked at it while lunching on sliders from Barney’s Beanery at the pier.

Redondo Beach, CA
Saturday soccer

Saturday: This was soccer day for our grandson and the whole family was up and out for a game at 8:00 am. His team fought hard but came up short in a 3-2 loss.  Our grandson played well both in the field and for one quarter at goalie.  I drifted back to the time when our two boys played soccer. Those were days of children’s youth that I remember very fondly. There is just something magical about seeing sleepy-eyed little boys arrive at a dew-covered field on a fall morning all grumpy and unsettled.  Then, as if by magic, a whistle blows, and eleven little boys take off in pursuit of a white sphere, kicking, and yelling at teammates suddenly awake and alive.  I love that.

Sunset – Hermosa Beach

Saturday evening: This was our night to stroll around the pier at Hermosa Beach.  My usual request is to have dinner at Hennessey’s Tavern at the base of the pier, but the last two visits have not gone well. The food was not good. The sunsets viewed from the dining room can be incredible and, for this reason alone, I was willing to give it one more try.  Soon after our seating, a spectacular sunset appeared and I ran out on the pier to capture it with my camera. The view of the sunset did not make up for the bad food as, once again, my meal was not prepared well–such a shame because the location is excellent.

A full pitcher

Sunday morning: The whirlwind swirled on when my son and I went back to the pier for a visit to Sharkees for NFL Football on many, many television sets.  Since we are in the Pacific Time Zone, football begins at 10:00 am and pitchers of Bloody Mary’s are available.  I thought “what the heck” I’m on vacation (aren’t I always?) and ordered up one pitcher as a chaser for my plate of nachos.  The atmosphere was terrific, but after a couple of hours, we returned home for a long nap. I’m a wild one!

Sunday evening: Suddenly our last night arrived and we were treated to a wonderful evening at the home of our daughter-in-law’s parents. Our host, Cheryl, always goes out of her way to make us feel welcome and is a fantastic entertainer. This evening was no exception. While seated at the dinner table, one of Cheryl’s other grandchildren decided that she wanted to serve salad to everyone and climbed on the table with serving forks in hand, aided by her grandfather. This was marvelous theater and laughter roared through the dining room. All too soon it was time to say goodbye.

Salad server

Monday: Up before sunrise, and it was time to head to the airport for the return trip home.  The flight was uneventful (thankfully) although the promised WiFi failed to work and the seats were still too small.  After touchdown and a quick Uber ride home, we were left wondering where the time went. Our west coast turnaround had ended almost as suddenly as it began, but I suppose that’s what happens in a fall whirlwind…you turn around and it’s gone.  Nevertheless, great memories linger…it’s just time to be Easin’ Along.

Letter to a “Solder”

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Weekend of Worship in the Woods

Children gathered for worship – Big South Fork

One of the first things we did after bringing home Betty (our new travel trailer) was to save the date for the annual family camping trip with a group from our church. This fun-filled weekend has been held every year for the last 25 years. Nevertheless, it would be the first time that Helen (adorable wife) and I would attend. I can’t really explain our reasons for not attending, especially in the early years except that it was probably because our boys were heavily involved in competitive soccer. That was our loss because this is a large amount of fun and very spiritually rewarding.

Family Camp is held in one of the group campgrounds in the Big South Fork National River & Recreation Area located on the Cumberland Plateau near Oneida, Tennessee. The area is truly beautiful and this year the leaves were brimming with color.  Fortunately, their color lingered long this year due to above average rainfall. About 25 families had signed up for the trip and we had over 70 people, including children, attending throughout the weekend with Helen and me being the oldest—probably by several years. Our age didn’t prevent us from being excited, however, and we were eagerly looking forward to the experience. This is what Easin’ Along is all about…faith, families, food, and fun–our kind of retirement activity

Bert and Betty in place for the weekend

We made it to Big South Fork around 2:30 on Friday afternoon and, except for one other person, were the first to arrive (being retired does have advantages). We filled our fresh water tank at the campsite and backed Betty in place with little trouble (I’m getting better at this).  The reason for wanting to arrive early aside from our excitement was to secure as level a camping spot as we could find to make set up as simple as possible.  We were soon joined by other families and, after everyone arrived, it turned out that we were only one of two campers with trailers as everyone else had tents.

Children playing football

The fun began almost immediately as children scampered about joining their friends and playing games. Of all the events of the weekend, it was this one aspect that gave me the most pleasure. It was so much fun seeing the young people ranging in age from three to thirteen playing outdoor games like hide and seek, flashlight tag, and football while leaving the Ipads and the television at home. I love it when children play while making up their own games (and rules) and I love hearing their laughter and squeals even more as they score wins or run away to avoid being “it”.

On the first evening, we were treated to a delicious potato soup prepared by one of the organizers and long-time attendees of the camp. We were then led by Mark, our energetic assistant minister through a short session where every family was asked to introduce themselves and share a family tradition with the group.  The stories and traditions brought smiles all around and it was a great way to become better acquainted with the attendees.  This was especially true for Helen and me because I serve as an usher for our early service every Sunday and don’t encounter most of the congregation that attends the eleven o’clock service.  The same thing is somewhat true for Helen because she sings in the choir. The introductions were followed by an inspiring devotional given by Richard, one of the elders in the church.

On Saturday morning, a breakfast of pancakes, bacon, and sausage was served up with the assistance of a couple of young fellows eager to get in on the act. It was a brisk morning and filling my lungs with crisp mountain air went a long way in getting me out of my comfortable bed inside Betty and on toward the pavilion in search of fresh coffee. I was just ahead of a group of children who arrived on their scooters in a jolly mood despite the early hour.

Helen and I spent the bulk of the day chatting with fellow campers and giving a few tours of Betty while we got her a bit more organized.  We took a walk to admire the fall colors before preparing a cornbread salad for the evening potluck dinner. Oh, and a nap was also on the schedule…just because we could.

Potluck spread
Mollie, my new BFF

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

At around 5:30 all campers began arriving for hamburgers and hot dogs that were accompanied by a smorgasbord of side dishes brought in by the families. I stuffed myself with a variety of treats, some of which are shown in the photo above. Trust me when I tell you that everything was delightful including the conversations we had with everyone sitting at our table where I met my new BFF, Mollie. She was a bit shy at first, but Helen brought out her best grandmother smile and let Mollie know that she wanted to be called BeBe (her name to our grandchildren) and that I was Big Daddy. Mollie and I became fast friends.

Gathering by the bonfire

The evening was capped off with a huge bonfire, a time of singing songs and a great message delivered by Mark as well as a devotional led by a charming young middle-schooler nicknamed “May-Ray”. I don’t know when I ever felt more relaxed and grateful to our Creator for the blessings we have been given including the opportunity to share in a setting such as this. I’m also certain that the children will remember this time for many years to come.

Getting the hang of it

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

After we left the bonfire, I did peek at my Ipad (don’t tell the kids) to find out if our Tennessee Volunteers were winning their football game. Fortunately, we had the game in hand and I was able to shut everything down and relax by our own campfire. Helen did the same. The night sky was brilliant with a full moon as well. I even saw a shooting star, something I haven’t witnessed in years.

Breakfast helpers

Pancakes and bacon were again the selection for breakfast on Sunday morning along with a variety of cereal and fruit. This didn’t take long as many were involved in packing for the trip home before our Sunday Service began. Mark had arranged for a student who is working as an intern at the church to come and lead us in music.  This young man was a very talented guitarist and had a great voice. He taught us the words to several songs and led us in singing them. We also had several children participate in the service and a children’s sermon from Mark on the beauty that surrounds us. After Mark’s message to the congregation, Helen and I served communion.

Communion service

I took away a lot from the weekend that will stay with me for a while. The staggering beauty of Big South Fork, the wonderful fellowship with members of our congregation, many of whom I had never met before, the awesome experience of being surrounded by beautiful, loving, and happy children, and of being touched by each of the messages we received.

I left with a better understanding of what it means to be grateful for God’s blessings. It didn’t require a great cathedral either…only a weekend of worship in the woods.

We had a wonderful time at Family Camp, and it’s once again a great time to be Easin’ Along. 

Family Camp attendees